2021年3月28日 星期日

自信

 


自信能增加靈魂的彈性;反之,擁有有彈性的靈魂,也能增加自信

有自信的人,或許不趾高氣昂,也和一般人一樣會受到傷害

但與沒自信之人的差別是,他/她能從外在檢視自己的狀態,辨別受到的衝擊是助力還是阻力,然後在去蕪存菁中重生;

當他/她確信即便遭受攻擊、疼痛、受傷了,他/她也有辦法從環境、內省、友人中獲得能量而復原,甚至進化,那麼他/她便會有自信

有自信的人,步伐堅定,心情愉悅;無論所做所為是否能如預期收效,都能分別應對

沒有自信是危險的,因為你的靈魂將任由外界捏塑

做一些能讓自己感到「我在不斷進步」、「我能掌控我的動作」甚至「我怎麼做都對」的事,那是你燃起自信的火種;

如果情況允許,不要在沒有足夠自信時將自己放在有風險的情況,直到你將自身培養成能穩穩站立的狀態

好比橫渡急流前,你得先吃得胖一點


Self-confidence can increase the resilience of the soul.

People who are confident may not be arrogant and will be harmed just like ordinary people. 

The difference with a person who is not confident is that he/she can examine his own state from the "outside", distinguish whether the impact is a boost or a resistance for him/her, and then rebirth in the process of removing the waste. 

Not having confidence is dangerous, because your soul will be sculpted by the outside world.

 So, if the situation permits, don’t put yourself in a risky situation when you are not confident enough, until you develop yourself into a stable standing state.



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